Marriage

For the Days When You Long to be Heard

For the Days When You Long to be Heard

If you were not securely attached to your primary caretaker as a child and have not actively worked on earned secure attachment to God as an adult, then walking securely in your relationships with God, your spouse, children, friends, or any other significant relationship in your life will be extremely difficult. But healing is possible. Restoration is possible. We just have to cry out, to trust, and to obey a God who loves us more than we could ever understand.

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Moving From Lament to Praise

Moving From Lament to Praise

Instead of ignoring all our emotions or stuffing them inside while trying to smear a veneer of praise on the surface, we need to try to let them all come up and out. The past will eventually pop up in the present if it isn’t dealt with. Instead of suppressing our emotions, we must learn to pay attention to them, so we can trace our anxious, angry, hurtful, sinful reactions back to their source and give them to God instead of stuffing them deeper inside. 

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You are the Beloved

You are the Beloved

This week's post is coming a little early - usually I post on Mondays, but I wanted to offer up these words this morning. Valentine's Day can bring a certain ache for many people. Deep down within us is a fierce longing and ache to be known, to be cherished, and to...

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